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How far is far enough???  

TheSexyTigress 61F
1254 posts
1/19/2012 2:18 am
How far is far enough???


How far does a woman have to go to be with the one she adores and he adores her back. How far am i really willing in order to go all the way with a guy (just to have sex) to say we are in a relationship. I have had to stop and smell the roses of just what i want in my life. Friends with Benefits (whom one man thought it was to pay for sex) or No Strings attached?? I am not getting any younger and lots of out there who just want sex in my humble opinion. So how far is far enough?? Just has been on my mind as of late. Anybodies experiences would be greatly appreciated in order to solidify in mind of this thought.

~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..


trucking0_13 61M

1/19/2012 5:22 am

love to chat with you sometime


Trya67 56M

1/19/2012 6:37 am

I think every situation or person . Has it's own issues to deal with . So i have no set system or way of deciding how far is far enough . I won't pay for it . And i won't beg for it . Other then that i guess i'm pretty open to whatever it might take .


gottaring 52F
15850 posts
1/19/2012 6:54 am

Well, are you asking 'how far' in terms of physical activity? Sex doesn't define a relationship, per se. For instance, my most recent 'beau' and I were exclusive to each other and had a committed 'relationship' even though he lived four hours away and we only met once, lol. We talked every night, we confided and commiserated. We did everything a 'couple' would do...just not always in person. I know that sounds really strange, but it worked for us. Sex was just the icing on the cake...not the cake itself.

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


Dom_Bunny 60M/49F
405 posts
1/19/2012 3:50 pm

I believe in simple wisdom... You cannot love someone you don't trust and you cannot trust someone you don't love... If the voice in your head is saying there is something wrong, listen to it... Run away and keep looking.

You decide how other people treat you. If you let people treat you as a doormat, then enjoy your place in life and quit bitching or it is time to grow a backbone.

I once thought there was only 1 soulmate for me. With time I have discovered there are many sexy people I can have deep meaningful connections with... I wont compromise on what I want from life and from a partner... You need to decide what you deserve and what you are willing to settle on...

DS

Arouse the mind, then the body follows eagerly...

Blog: The Erotic Art of Sensual Domination [blog Dom]


dirtyoldfartmt 74M
44 posts
1/8/2016 1:09 am

I sure hop things have gotten better since your post was 3 years ago. I see you are a Taurus and we are known to be so picky that we end up alone. I know I need to be more realistic about who I want....either take what you can get and live with it, or wait till what you want shows up.


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