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What is up with men???
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What is up with men??? I have to air my beefs right now. Why is it always that men think that the women have to always drive to see them. I am so fed up. One man from Passion asked me to meet him in Dubai. Imagine that?? Only a $4000.00 ticket for 4 days??? Does he think i am really crazy. I have driven to Cold Lake, Lloydminisister, Camrose as well as to Edmonton and Calgary several times. Not once have these men ever come to Red Deer. Anyone who is not familiar with Alberta...these take from one hour and a half drive to six hours drive. So I finally have to draw the line in the sand and say if a man really wants to meet me...he has to come to see me on my own turf. Enough of always going to meet them. I have had it. Just wondering if this happens to other women?? Or I am the only crazy sincere woman?? I have had only one man drive to see me once a week in Red Deer and treat me nice. Only to find he was playing me like a fiddle. He was playing with women in Calgary and planning hookups with other women all the while I thought he truly did care for me.  I am not crazy or stupid. I just have a hard time saying no!!!!  ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much.. |
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Thank You duderonomy for your input. I mean i dont mind travelling but all the time?? It gets cumbersome. LOL...i will get my chisel out!!! ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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The longest I've driven was 2.5 hours, and he drove the same distance to meet me halfway. Truth be told, I generally don't consider meeting anyone outside of my town- this particular gent was an exception. For a first time meeting, I won't meet anywhere near my actual home- I've heard too many stories about men following women home, etc. When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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Wow.....what a sap I've been all my life.....I thought men were the ones who drove to meet a woman...... No matter its been a tough stretch for me.....I didn't ask them to drive to meet me....thanks for this important information..... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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11/21/2011 8:40 pm |
omg I get it all the time--- please cum see me!! drive to Calgary Red Deer etc--- did it a couple times and NEVER again !! I am worth a tank of gas to meet I tell ya--- AND if we hit it off and end up seeing each other-- THEN I have no issues driving back and forth taking turns!! but seriously if a guy wants to make an impression and win points get in YOUR vehicle and make her at least think she is worth it!! goodness!! you guys need to make yourself stand out from the millions of men panting at our heels!! giggle--- I made myself laugh with that one!! just my thoughts kc
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Thanks for all your affirmation on my blog. No this guy works in Afghanistan with the USA army. He told me to buy my ticket and i told him to think twice. Who in their right mind could pay $4000.00 for 4 days. And i have drawn this line very straightly in the sand or chiseled in the cement. I agree KCey and Sweet Circe. I dont mind driving but all the friggen time???  ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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Hi sf native. That is sweet but so often men expect the ladies to do all the travelling. I could tell you horror story after another. And it would knock your socks off. I flew to Baltimore, paid for my flight. The guy was not there so i texted him and he said he was at work. He knew i was coming in at a certain time.So i waited. He finally showed up and when in his car, he said "Jennie...we have a problem. We cannot stay at my house. And i have no money." So i had to pay for the hotel room.That night we asked if i wanted to go out for supper. I said sure. I was on my diet already so i only had a small salad but he ordered all types of food for him. When the bill arrived he said he had to go out for a smoke. So I waited and waited and finally came to the conclusion that he expected me to pay the bill. I did and he was waiting in front of the restaurant in his car. Next morning he left at 7:00 am to supposedely take his kids to school. I said to him i did not fly all the way to Baltimore for you to leave me. Well needless to say he beat me up in the hotel room. I took pictures of the bruises and sent them to my sister in Red deer. She was on the phone with the Baltimore police and i said Jackie....i cannot afford another trip to Maryland and i certainly cannot afford a lawyer. So i said wait for me to come back in three days. When i got back i found out i could have charged him for abuse and the cops would have looked after it for me. Needless to say i have horror story after horror story of how men have treated me. But that is just one instance. I refuse to let men bully me anymore and especially take full advantage of me. Never take my kindness for weakness. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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I so agree with you Sweet Circe. From now on if a man wants me, first he will come to me and he will pay for lunch. If we happen to need a hotel room which never happens to me anymore, he would have to pay for that as well. This one is done with being used. Plus money does not grow on trees. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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All kidding aside I have never had a woman drive any great distance to meet me. I still can't believe your Baltimore experience. I would guess he was still married which was why he couldn't have you in his house....what a loser.....gives the gentlemen of the world a black eye.. Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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No i never generalize all men ironman. That is not in my personality. I give everyone a fair chance always. But it is the line in the sand that keeps me in check. He proabably was ironman. It is on his conscience and not mine. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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LOL...i was warned by my friends when i told them about going to Dubai they warned me and said you might never come out of that place. Being blonde and blue eyed they said i would probably be taken into a sex market. I find that hard to belive. But getting beat up in Baltimore...anything is possible. But I think there are still good and decent men out there. Just have to use my old patience is a virtue trick and i will be good to go. But i refuse to settle for second best. We all deserve the best in life. That is my theory and i am sticking to it. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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I agree katinthehat. Your words are very true and i was crazy to do what i did. But i guess it is a bit like living on the edge. That would describe me. Guy after Dubai was from Mexico City. He said he would fly me first class to Mexico City. My friends are all freaking out saying Mexico City is known for their crime. As it turned out it turned out, i had booked holidays. And waited for the ticket to be confirmed. Well next think i know i am blocked from his profile and he never even tells me what happened. So another blow. Now if refuse to drive to meet a guy. If i am special enough he will just have to damn well come to see me. On my turf. On my ground and in my city. Thanks for pointing out my utter stupidity. I know it well. My sisters keep reminding me of it. Isnt life grande?? You meet all these players who like to lead you down now a fantasy world! ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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Oh no Katinthehat...i never took your intial message as that being negative or that you called me stupid. I realized i was the stupid one for allowing these instances to occur. I was happy with your brutual honesty. Sometimes we need that honesty to make us change our way of thinking. I used to believe all mankind was genuine. As i am but i have had to do a complete 360 degreees and change my way of thinking. Fundmore i am so easy going. I like having coffee at shades lounge in the Holiday Inn as the refills keep acoming!!! On a serious note thanks for dropping in. I had no idea you were from Red Deer as well. Happy Thursday and one day closer to TGIF!!!! ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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TheSexyTigress, I have to echo the comments of Duderonomy... Any man who truly appreciates the quality woman you are will make the effort to come to you, treat you like a lady, take the time to make an emotional connection and make you feel like a queen... I was once told you need to make a woman feel like a cherished, respected and loved queen in public to get the naughty vixen in private... I totally believe that is true! If you are not getting that, kick is ass to the curb ASAP. You seem to be a "Giver" who gives of herself to please others (most women are). You seem to be attracting "Takers" who drain your emotions and energy. If you take the time to look for a man who wants to give you emotional energy and build you up to feel beautiful, sexy and cherished, I suspect you will find a much better match. I use a very simple philosophy in dating: "NO" is the second best answer I can arrive at because I stop wasting time with a dud and I quickly move on to a potential "YES". Every door you close, opens new possibilities. I have searched for 6 years since my divorce. I only found exactly who I was looking for. You can too... DS Arouse the mind, then the body follows eagerly... Blog: The Erotic Art of Sensual Domination [blog Dom]       
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Thank You Dominant Soul. That message actually brought tears to my eyes. Why you might ask?? Well i am going to tell you anyways!!! On a serious note i have been conversing with a Dominant man from California for about two years now. He sends me one liner texts and then that is it. Or we are on skype and suddenly he disappears so i came right out and ask him if he was married or had a girlfriend. Red Flags for sure. Well he assured me he did not. So me being so submissive i said "okay i believe you" when deep down i dont believe him for a moment. He is again playing with my emotions. And i have phoned him, texted him, even left messages oh his yahoo and skype. Only to not be acknowledged. It makes me feel sad. Am i a sucker for losers?? Makes me want to become a nun...with a vibrator!!!! Or do nuns like sex?? Well i will become a nonconformist nun!!!!  Because i cannot keep going through all of these feelings of unworthiness. I know in my heart i would do anything for the one i love. But he has to be willing to reciprocate these feelings back. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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SexyTigress, You are blaming the victim (YOU). You are very attractive and you have a generous heart so you attract many types of people (Good and Bad). You must learn to be much more cautious and discerning to protect yourself and to save yourself from heartache. Each relationship failure teaches us good lessons about mistakes in judgement in selecting better partners or how we need to improve as a partner to keep a good partner... Stop beating yourself up for their mistakes... but start listening to your gut and confront issues immediately when you suspect something is wrong. "NO" is the second best answer you reach in dating. If you reach "NO" quickly, you will save yourself a mile of heartache... DS Arouse the mind, then the body follows eagerly... Blog: The Erotic Art of Sensual Domination [blog Dom]
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Okay here is another scenario i have been put up to deal with. I was talking to a Dominant man in California. Well apparently another woman from Manitoba saw enough on my profile on another site that she approached me. As it turned out he was playing both of us at the same time. Many red flags turned up for me and i was always asking him why he only sent me one liner texts once a day. On his profile he said he demanded communication but he did not follow his own rule. Well right now we are both hurting. Last night when she told me i was in shock and total disaray. I could not believe he had another woman(women). Maybe i told this lady he had many other women besides her and I. He told her exactly what he told me. As we compared notes i finally sent him an email specifying that he hurt both of us and that he should really apologize. Well either her nor I have heard from him. So these are the knuckelheads i am against. And i am once again hearing my heart go pitter patter. I have cried enough tears to create a river. Dominant Soul...you are so right. But when one is so trusting and kind we are always getting hurt....the ones with these types of personalities. I often wish i could be a bitch but i just cannot. Not in my makeup. But i have to learn this discretion. Thank You. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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Okay here is another scenario i have been put up to deal with. I was talking to a Dominant man in California. Well apparently another woman from Manitoba saw enough on my profile on another site that she approached me. As it turned out he was playing both of us at the same time. Many red flags turned up for me and i was always asking him why he only sent me one liner texts once a day. On his profile he said he demanded communication but he did not follow his own rule. Well right now we are both hurting. Last night when she told me i was in shock and total disaray. I could not believe he had another woman(women). Maybe i told this lady he had many other women besides her and I. He told her exactly what he told me. As we compared notes i finally sent him an email specifying that he hurt both of us and that he should really apologize. Well either her nor I have heard from him. So these are the knuckelheads i am against. And i am once again hearing my heart go pitter patter. I have cried enough tears to create a river. Dominant Soul...you are so right. But when one is so trusting and kind we are always getting hurt....the ones with these types of personalities. I often wish i could be a bitch but i just cannot. Not in my makeup. But i have to learn this discretion. Thank You. You are a submissive, not an emotional doormat. A true Dominant cherishes his submissive for gift of submission - her willingness give over control of her body and mind. I don't quite know what to say about men who pathologically need to seduce numerous women at once. Clearly, there are some sexual insecurities where numerous conquests feeds their egos... I suggest that you view these temporary misjudgement in character as "bullets you dodged". Be thankful you didnt move cities or changed your life for these idiots... A healthy level of skeptism is required online - You don't know these people at all! Trust is earned with time and consistent, supporting behaviour... Listen to the voice in your head and react instantly to red flags... DS DS Arouse the mind, then the body follows eagerly... Blog: The Erotic Art of Sensual Domination [blog Dom]
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Thanks Dominant Soul. You answered my question with your response. I have been conversing with the other woman. She happens to be a Canadian also. Just sad when you put so much trust in a person and they do this to you. Just shakes my head at the consciousness of some people. I sent him an email today and stated why would he do this. Tell two women he loves us. Told us the same scenarios that i choose not to disclose on this site. Might make people think i am totally off my rocker!!!! Sometimes i wonder if i have fallen of my rocker and cannot get up!!!! ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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