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Just wondering is all...
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Just wondering is all... I am curious to know this. Do men see women just for their body or do they care to know there is more between the two ears that is on their body?? I often wonder about this. I would love to hear what others think. Thank You in advance.  ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much.. |
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1 post 11/29/2010 5:02 pm |
i like you and your body lady want some more find me or post
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Considering that many men have sisters, to say nothing of mothers, it would be surprising if men had such a limited view of women. Having been raised in a family--a more complex statement than it looks--of women who were each remarkably smart, sharp, etc, I do not share that limited sense of woman... Having said that, I do have certain expectations of what the womanly package should look like...
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11/29/2010 7:36 pm |
You have to remember we men are VISUAL creatures We LOOK first. Then we see if the personality matches the body 
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11/29/2010 11:21 pm |
the first reaction of course is physical appearance but whats between the ears does matter as much. its really hard to be with someone if theyre just not that bright
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11/30/2010 5:14 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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Great question! Personally, I am attracted to both. A great looking lady certainly catches a guy's eye quicker, as I am sure the opposite works the same. But a good looking lady with a great mind is a delightful combination indeed. The question this could bring up is "what is considered good looking?". The best answer would be "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder".Someone can become beautiful but can someone develop a great mind?
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There definetly must be a physical attraction but that said a great personality and smarts are very sexy in a woman
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If they are looking for sex, it's all about the body. If they want more, then, while a physical attraction is important, other things like personality, intelligence, and demeanor are equally important. Conversation is a great way of making a connection. If you can't talk, if you can't communicate, anything more than a physical relationship is unlikely.
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A beautiful woman needs to have something between the ears to make great passion. Eye candy is sure a nice start but won't go far to a sucessful time in bed or out.
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I guess there's your side of it too. does a good looking guy with a great bed manner and the brains of mouse make for a good time?
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I would say it depends on what the guy is looking for.If it is only casual sex then knowledge doesn't matter really,but if you are looking for a relationship then yes we do care that we are compatibale in life education,and naughtyness
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No easyrancher!!!! I dont want someone who looks good but cannot carry on a conversation. He has to have smarts to him to attract me to him. Like the movie "The GrownUps". The lifeguard was all hot and when he approached the women in the movie his voice was so high as he was affected by the steroids!!!! That does not turn my crank whatsoever. Yes compatibility is only common sense. But i agree with the one who wrote "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Could not agree with him more on that simple yet complex statement. Thanks for all your views on this subject. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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12/1/2010 8:56 pm |
A beautiful woman is eye candy; she's got to have some intellect to be attractive. Brains are, ultimately, the most the erotic part of a woman.
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The body is just a vessel that holds your essence and though a good looking vessel is a nice thing it is just an object. I appreciate the mind, spirit and body but unless the person inside strikes a chord with me, the 'object' that is the body will only interest me for a short time, and superficially. I think you find much more of a true connection when you like who the person is even more than what they look like. Beauty fades or changes with time and a love of the person transcends that.
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Well I am sure there are men that only look at the body and what they can get from it, but also am sure that some men like a lady for what she is inside and out.
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12/11/2010 2:04 pm |
It is much more that the body to me, the mind the passion of the person is also what makes them sexy, they way they move a look, or a touch can be very erotic and make a person what they are. When people meet there seem to be immediate connections that shine through. We are all human and pleasure is different to us all, some people we connect with right away and others we seem so different, {{{Hug}}}
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12/12/2010 9:29 pm |
I will agree with almost everyone here by stating; If our intent is to be purely casual and motivated to only engaged in sexual encounters with her, then physical attraction is the only thing to consider. When we are motivated by the desire to find a long-term relationship, intentions and priorities shift. I will point out that physical attraction still opens the window, however this time it holds the window open to let out all the qualities, etc...that a woman must have to make it work. The physical is the easy part, decided probably in less than 5 seconds. Mental, and all the other attractive things about someone, take time. Eventually everything is bundled to make the perfect package.
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I agree with you Huggz totally. To me that is what i was trying to get across in my blog. Thank You Curious for you comments as well. Hugs to all of you. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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I've met very attractive women that I've wanted nothing more to be with. Then I talked to them and found out they were either not very nice or not very smart and I no longer found them attractive. I've also met women that I didn't find very attractive but could hold a conversation and actually cared about people and I thats when I wanted to be with them. A good personality out weighs looks every time.
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Good to know and Thank You jjohn for stating just this. Often times many men are looking for barbie doll types...all looks and nil personality. Thus saying this, i am not a two tonne tessa either. But i feel my personality outweighs my looks. Plus Beauty is skin deep. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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12/28/2010 12:11 pm |
The looks may catch their attention but the mind is the great way to stimulate a man sexually and keep him satisfied.
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good to know all this coming from sensible men!!! Take care. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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Well Tigress all I can say is for ME the brain is the most important part of a woman. Firstly you need to connect, and try as I might I can't connect with a pair of breasts (now that being said we men must be nice to breasts cuz they outnumber us two to one!! LO . Secondly the biggest erogenous zone is a woman's brain, if you turn that on the rest has no choice but to follow. That's just how I see it
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oops sorry for the symbol that wasn't what i was trying to type i was just closing the bracket on my comment and it just so happened the last letter was an L... again .. oops sorry!! Arc
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No worries at all ArchAngel. Thank You responding to this post. Happy New Year!!! May we all find what we are seeking on this site. ~~TheSexyTigress~~ Live Life..Laugh Often...Love Much..
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