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guys n girls  

sin690072 43F
17 posts
4/16/2010 1:20 am
guys n girls


can a guy be in a long term relationship with a girl that gave it up on the first date?

hardworkin2008 65M
1569 posts
4/16/2010 4:40 am

Yes!! Women think that most guys live in a sea of women and we don't. When we do find someone we like we have probably been alone for a while and are probably too sexually aggressive. The same is probably the same of women and the male ego being the way it is, he will assume he is the exception to the rule on your dating history.

I have dated many women I have had sex with on the first date (that didn't sound that good about me!). I don't suggest women have sex on the first date unless you like living in the fast lane but it's certainly not a deal breaker.

I have had sex with women on the fly who were no more interested in pursuing a long term relationship than I was. On the other hand, if a woman is looking for more she should ask and expect more.


horny196364 60M

4/16/2010 4:55 am

love to chat with you sometime


rm_usone1 69M
6677 posts
4/16/2010 11:57 am

Can't see how, probably just some extra for him on the sly.


MageDrake 57M
916 posts
4/16/2010 7:00 pm

It definitely depends on the guy. If he sees sex as a conquest, I doubt he could maintain a LTR with the woman. Now a man that see sex as something more spiritual, he might well be able to do so.

Good Luck finding him. Looking forward to you next blog.


passer58by 66M
4170 posts
4/19/2010 10:52 am

Yes. Sometimes one night stands last a lot longer....


2fingfun 50M/51F

5/2/2010 6:33 pm

absolutely


rm_richi971 46M
2 posts
8/9/2010 8:50 pm

En mi punto de vista para tener una relacion es necesario conocerse, y no me refiero precisamente a en persona, pero si en correos, en charlas mediante el chat, en fotos y dependiendo de esto es cuando se determina si es en verdad una buena relacon y fructifera, a excepcion que desde el inicio se pongan las reglas, si es relacion o solo sexo, me gustaria contestaras mi comentario mi correo es mi alias en yahoo


disguy9092 38M  
129 posts
9/15/2010 10:55 am

if you didnt give it up the first date who is to say he didnt call up a booty call that night and just wait til you do give it up. If you want to have sex then do it and if you dont you dont. Dont feel "wrong" for doing it.


pearldyver69 54M

10/13/2010 5:29 pm

Sex on the first date won't prevent most men from wanting a long term relationship. In fact, if the chemistry is great and the sex is amazing, it may hook a dude right then and there. However, if you have sex with a man on the first date, you need to be comfortable with the fact that that may be all he wants. So, you better want it on the first date too. Otherwise, don't do it.


rm_dragon170652 60M
221 posts
11/17/2010 3:29 pm

It depends... Was it a spontaneous meeting where both can barely remember a first name? Then I would say no. However, if it were someone you already had a working or social relationship with for some time then I would say the positive possibilities improve for a ltr. Having sex with this person only expands the circle of common experiences to share intimacies and lusts with each other openly and honestly. Afterall, we are only human.


rm_latinonicoya 62M
318 posts
1/25/2011 5:23 pm

I believe that its all about respect ,so if the man you slept with doesn't understand that you had needs that had to be taken care of and this doesn't happen every time you go on a first date ,then you should be ok ,but you do have to let him know that ,come on you know how dense some men can be .......plus sometimes baby you do what you have too!!!


havinablast36 50M

2/16/2011 11:59 am

Yes. It does depend on the guy, but you absolutely can.


GISKO1 52M

3/30/2011 9:10 pm

Are you seriously doubting love at first site and aacting upon it!


runboy2011 40M

4/27/2011 2:47 am

sure love you idea!!!

I just want to meet


runboy2011 40M

4/27/2011 2:49 am

let me know when

I just want to meet


lickin4fun41 58M
120 posts
5/2/2011 1:29 pm

If besides the the sexual allure,there is intellectual commonality & complementing personality traits, I say yes.

Make every moment count


rm_Memoiam 56M
28 posts
8/5/2011 2:24 am

No here n Alhambra 8 miles 2 fun fun fun


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