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I blew it !!!  

elle_dee 53F
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953 posts
5/15/2011 5:05 pm
I blew it !!!

Today, for the first time in 3 years someone came into my shop who I thought was so hot. Totally my type. He was with a few friends but we were sharing some witty banter, alot of smiles & THE look. I was going to put my # on one of our business cards & give it to him but I chickened out. I just cant do something like that. I dont know if its fear of rejection, even though I was getting signs he may have been interested, or I just dont know how to meet someone on the spot like that. Im so used to online dating that I dont know how to handle myself in a "real" life situation. I guess I am a little shy. I'm not very forward, & Im used to men pursuing me....here. Is Passion fucking up my game?

What do you think, should I have handed him a card with my number? What would your reaction be if that happen to you (men)?
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johnfromaruba 52M/55F  
9 posts
5/15/2011 5:56 pm

 Seize the moment....never let the opportunity pass you by. Now, I know you dont know me and I am a guy, but sometime's it pays to be forward and take the leap.....I took such a leap with my wife and we've been together for 20 years and I want 50 more with her....


flirtycouple3126 52M/52F
36 posts
5/15/2011 6:00 pm

 i would like that, to me that tells me that the nows what she want and not afraid to go for it....


elle_dee 53F
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5/15/2011 6:26 pm
    Quoting  :
Youre not old silly, just married lol
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Gedalia3 60M
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5/15/2011 8:14 pm

 I'd agree with the others. Any guy would be thrilled to get it from you.

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horny196364 60M

5/16/2011 5:45 am

 love to chat with you sometime


goodlicker45 62M
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5/16/2011 7:16 pm

 I htink you should have gave him your card with your email, that way if he is a freak (not in a good way ) ye culd have went for a drink or coffee and he would not know where you live or you have to change your number


Carnivore_11 48M

5/16/2011 7:42 pm

 If you 2 got that special "moment".... he will come back, if he doesn't then he's probably not worth your time. It is the men's role to do the heavy lifting so to speak...


smithftzyxxx 55M
3655 posts
5/17/2011 11:02 am

 yes,i think you should have given your number.....and if someone did that for me i would be flattered and impressed.

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bwk0380 44M
10 posts
5/22/2011 2:08 pm

 Yea you should have given it to him and not worry about getting rejected...you fail/miss out 100% of the time when you never try


rm_LongIsleFun2 52M
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6/3/2011 8:52 am

 The internet has fucked up everyone's game!


Phaedrus61616 63M
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6/5/2011 7:13 am

 Guys are thrilled when a woman takes the first step. You'll probably get another chance, so take it and see how surprised and flattered he is.


elle_dee 53F
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6/11/2011 6:49 am

 Thanks everyone. Great to hear men arent put off by an agressive woman.
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goodwynngone 62M  
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7/19/2011 6:32 am

 if you were chatting...witty banter/innuendo...and the like. you should've asked him if you could give him your number. if you're only used to guys hitting you up here...that can't be good. even if you were too shy to give him your number, you should've asked him if he'd like to meet out for a drink of whatever kind... one's gotta keep those people skills finely honed.


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