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Blogs > SexiSingleMom24 > Sexiness Is A State Of Mind;)

Do Men Really Think BBW Is Sexy...Or Are They Just Desperate??  

SexiSingleMom24 39F
765 posts
3/25/2011 8:48 pm
Do Men Really Think BBW Is Sexy...Or Are They Just Desperate??
I joined this site a few years ago before my disease, before my , before life really..I think I've been on every side of the spectrum with my looks..but I've always remained me inside so it frustrated me when I'm judged on my looks but that's life we women have to accept in a somewhat shallow world..I really wonder with all the men that contact me are they just plain desperate? Or will they just do ANYTHING for sex? [And I've seen some women that seriously need a reality check when they call themselves BBW because I could have called myself BBW my whole life from my insecurity issues but it was just my perception of what I saw in the mirror no matter how skinny I was]..Or are there truly some men that prefer BBW? I guess it would be nice to know I was accepted no matter how I looked seeing as thru it all but my personality remains unchanged..but I would be excited to hear there are men out there that love the you thats BBW
EnchantedViolet 59F
2795 posts
3/25/2011 9:44 pm

 Ditto what Kat said. I like a man who enjoys my body type, but I like best when a man likes ME.
EnchantedViolet... the Garden is in bloom again
Thou Shalt Not Fuck Thy Neighbor


SexiSingleMom24 39F
92 posts
3/26/2011 1:33 am

 you girls nailed it !! I could use friends like you


rm_Tee_and_A 39M/38F
34 posts
3/26/2011 2:11 am

 No doubt there's a little of both. Many men truly are attracted to larger women, and for good reason. Not only are they nice and soft and curvy, but often they have a better attitude than a lot of skinny girls do. To have a positive body image, despite not living up to societal standards, is very sexy, whereas being conceited and self-involved because you do match those standards is incredibly unattractive. On the other hand, there are surely many who are simply too desperate to care. Good luck telling them apart.


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