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Why I am on AFF..& cheating men..
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Why I am on AFF..& cheating men.. Honestly guys i signed up for Passion cuz I had been on POF and well I cant be as honest on there about how I feel about the whole sex issue..I am actually looking for love..a relationship..dating..Pretty much what every girl longs to have sum day..but I love sex, everything about sex..its my number one issue when it comes to being with a guy for long term cuz I need 2 be satisfied with my sex life or Id want to search elsewhere..when I'm not in a relationship I will play along with guys just wanting a good night of mutual pleasure and kinky fun..but Im sure theres men out there like me who would like to try the sex before considering any type of furthering of the relationship with a girl and thats how I feel..meet for sex..see how it goes.. if u click then lets pursue it..I'm not all about lets just meet for a one night stand or lets be fuck buddies..thats all good if u havent found what u are ultimately searching for..but in the back of my mind I'm always thinking of meeting the guy who can rock my world in bed and be a friend and lover someone to talk to hang with..just spend time with and enjoy life with..does that make any sense?..im very open ..but I dont believe in cheating in any way..Ive been tempted 2 cheat before and Im 2 honest and dont want to sneek around or let myself sink to that level so with my ex I explained to him I wasnt satisfied that led to swinging which i thot i was ok with..but then I met sumone i really truly fell in love with and found out that im NOT that girl who can do the whole swinging scene when im in love to me its a betrayal of my heart when all I want is the guy im with and I believe that guy should return the smae respect and feel the same way about me..if hes not satisfied then he should move on and vice versa no cheating..This guy told me that a man is not meant to be with just one person and thats scientific..well since ive seen men perfectly happy with the person they love for many years ive seen men who are more monogomous then any girls i know and seen men who can control thier urges for theone they love and respect so i know that science can be bullshit..just like reilgion can be i mean seriously we have men saying that thousands of years ago men were meant to sleep around but thats just educated guesswork as noone will trully know just like if god exists or not noone will ever really know..i bet a thousand years ago there were men who loved only one woman as well yes men fucked around back then and will continue to do so til the end of time but there are those who can be honest with themselves and thier respective others if theyre not satisfied, make efforts to make it work, or just plain love thier girl enuf to not cheat..its hard 2 trust men of course when ur like me and been with a few married guys whose wives dont know and it truly worries me that men cant control themselves..if u guys think we women dont have urges or attraction to other men ur dead wrong..we do..we just care more it seems.. to be honest and try and make it work and avoid these situations..not all of us tho but a fair amount is all im saying..scientists proly cant find eveidence of women fucking around back then cuz most likely wed be killed, stoned, we werent even treated as people but now u see the statistics are rising for cheating women so we can use science on our side to and say we were meant to cheat.. i mean its almost gettin to a point we dont need men to reproduce anyways so why cant we make excuses for ourselves as well? ..cuz its all just that excuses ..anyone who wants to remain faithful can ..just throwing that point out there bcuz it bothers me that menthink its ok 2 treat thier women that way..and i hope to never be in a situation like that..u can see from my profile i love sex i want it all the time and im open if u cant be happy with that then keep on ur way and dont stop here..  |
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10/13/2009 12:03 am |
I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, I HAVE BEEN CHEATED ON 2X..BOTH TIMES WASNT PRETTY, THE FIRST A MONTH BEFORE I WAS SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED, SHE DECIDED TO HAVE ANOTHER B/F AND DIDNT TELL ME UNTIL I CAQUGHT HER IN THE ACT, THE SECOND WELL LETS PUT IT THIS WAY, WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT SOMETHINGS WELL I LEFT, DIDNT LOOKED BACK SO I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I WOULD LOVE TO HUGGED YOU AND TELL YOU EVERYTHING WILL BE OK..GIVE YOU SOME HOPE. I AM A VERY PASSIONATE, CARING AND LOVANLE PERSON...IF YOU WANT TO TALKED LET ME KNOW, I HAVE WONDERFUL EARS..I DONT KNOW IF YOU CAN CALL LONG DISTANCE BUT I CAN..HOPE TO HEAR FROM YA
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