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The Jesus/ Complex
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9/25/2011 8:25 am |
I do believe on some level both male & female's have both traits however the matter of what expense they are willing to act upon those feelings to satisfy there own desires & not hurt the people around them Married/Single/Divorced, etc is the question. 
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Oh I think your dead on. There are so many who as the old saying goes can talk the talk, but can't walk the walk...men and women. Some are willing to admit it upfront that they've never tried some of what they're thinking about. The question is, why not? You may be right...could it be that some of these same people who come across saintly in the one relationship, are the same ones who go outside the same relationship for wild and kinky play? Just a thought. Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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i think this concept applies to men AND women. i know for a fact that my former boyfriend enjoyed looking at porn. which never offended me. but when it came to me... he just never ended up seeing me in THAT way. when i broke up with him.. he even said that to me. he just didnt see me THAT way. me being able to be there for him, supporting him, caring about him is what he said he always viewed as more important to him anyways when it came to me being his girlfriend... also for myself, i know that i didnt see him in THAT way, or i didnt feel it was really important for me to see him in THAT way. which is why i looked outside of my relationship. like it was easier for me to see OTHER men as sexual objects to have fun with... as opposed to seeing my boyfriend in that manner... so yeah, i view this topic as VERY interesting to me. i think it applies to me A LOT. now that i know my awareness of separating men into different categories. my hopes one day is that i can combine the two together into one person.. When I'm good, I'm great, but when I'm bad, I'm even better...
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Brilliant concept! Awesome photo. No, I think guys can be both gentleman and kinky in bed. The same with women.
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I think some of the madonna/whore complex and even the "Jesus/Gigolo" complex may stem from fear of rejection...no one WANTS to be met with disgust or ridicule with something as intimate and personal as sex, so the tendency is for both men AND women to engage in experimental activity only with those about whom they care relatively little and with whom they have minimal emotional investment. . Women: If you're missing a little "kink," try leading your man into it...most men will follow quite willingly. .
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11/18/2011 1:28 pm |
Thought provoking post...made me think a little bit about my own situation. Thanks
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