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IT'S ALL ABOUT ME! (purposely mis-leading title)  

fortydbldlish 62F  
31 posts
2/19/2011 12:13 pm
IT'S ALL ABOUT ME! (purposely mis-leading title)


I post this blog as an informative insight to my wants and needs. This way, there are no grey areas left open for speculation.

Not to say that all areas are carved in stone, just written in techno-ink on this post! Easy to read, understand and interpret.
(I wonder if men think women should come with an instruction sheet like this one?)

THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS ALL BEGIN WITH THE LETTER "I".

I:
AM SINGLE FOR THE FIRST TIME. (and scarred half to death of it!)
WANT TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT.
DESERVE TO HAVE FUN.
WANT TO SHARE MY FUN WITH OTHERS
NEED TO FEEL WANTED, NEEDED,AND DESERVED, AND APPRECIATED!

(Wow, I am realizing how profound the above statements are, as I was typing them!)

I:
DON'T WANT ANYMORE "MOMMA'S BOYS" (regardless of their age)
DON'T WANT TO BE STALKED.
DON'T WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP AT THIS TIME.

I:
LIKE TO BE HELD. (not imprisoned)
LIKE TO BE KISSED. (just let me breathe betweem kisses)
LIKE THINGS THAT MAY NOT ALWAYS BE GOOD FOR ME. (red meat,
refined sugar, beer, and some men!)

MY:
GIFT IS TO MAKE PEOPLE LAUGH, ENJOY LIFE AND HAVE FUN WHEN
THEY ARE WITH ME.

INSTRUCTION BOOK....HA-HA-HA! IF IT WERE THIS EASY (it really is) THEN WE WOULD ALL JUST GET ALONG!

SO THERE IT IS! I TOLD YOU UP FRONT, IT'S ALL ABOUT ME! MAYBE NOT ALL, I HAVE LEFT OUT A FEW DETAILS...JUST TO KEEP A MAN GUESSING! (and on their toes!)

HOPE YOU ENJOYED TODAYS LESSON!
fortydblblish
(40DD-lish)

horny196364 60M

2/19/2011 3:30 pm

love to chat with you sometime


Jeff4you2 61M

2/27/2011 1:26 pm

Nice, a woman who knows what she wants, and doesn't want. . .


ErnieGlit 53M
21 posts
2/28/2011 12:51 am

It sure would make my life alot easier if women came with your "users" manual. I would feel alot more comfortable knowing which direction to take or what the next step is. Thank you for your informative intructional blog. I might be able to figure you out, at least.


desertstr8guy 58M
4 posts
2/28/2011 1:03 am

Really? Its probably you. You need to make the necessary adjustments to create the foreground. By putting the past in the past. Moving forword and making a change is hard. Especially if you are used to doing things a certain way. Read your I list and "I" agree.
Crappy is the day a woman felt stalked or imprisioned or the proverbial "walking on egg-shells". I wish you well. Find a church or a club, take a class in something that interests you. looking in the right places is the best way to meet a friend you can check out prior to even speaking to him. If its nsa you want from someone close by, let me know.. S


curlyblondebear 64M

3/14/2011 1:14 pm

I like what you wrote and that should be bare minimum of what you should expect whether in a relationship or not. I think a man can do just fine without an instruction booklet, but he needs to pay attention. There are always signs a woman has to what is bothering her or makes her happy. Getting to know her in such a special way, is deeper then any manual could ever tell you or all women would be the same and they are not.
In anycase, It's okay to be scared a little, but I think you are on the right path to being happy again. I see a beautiful woman with a warm smile, which tells me she has a big heart. Protect it and use it for you!!! Anyone else must earn a piece of it as only you will be in control of allowing that. Take care and best wishes.


rm_juanentu 68M
28 posts
3/15/2011 5:37 pm

Read both of your blog postings, and am very impressed with how well they are written, you obviously put a lot of thought into the content. And it shows what you need to be contented. I would love to hear more from you, and maybe I will soon. I am making a trip to visit relatives in Palm Desert and had planned to stay in the Lake Elsinore area to check out houses to buy. I plan to move to that area soon, but can stay just as easily in Banning, or Beaumont so we can have dinner and drinks and chat with each other.


madfireman69 61M

3/25/2011 11:25 am

Well, this fireman wil alway treat you with respect and kindness and and bit of luv / Eros.....I have to hve passion and tederness when I'm with you , but knowing that time is fleeting and we all have lives to live in our own way....hense this awsome site we're all on...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmI travel all over during the summer on fires and luv to start some as well..mmmmmmmmmmmm


Exbesosdefuego49 62M

4/5/2011 3:11 am

I Want to know you, are amazing woman, like it. Kiss tenderness


rm_latinonicoya 62M
318 posts
6/11/2011 6:17 pm

I LOVE A GAL WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS !!!


OCBroker 59M

6/23/2011 10:29 pm

LOVE you pic, profile & blog.

I'd love to chat sometime...

- F


OCBroker 59M

6/23/2011 10:30 pm

Young_OC

On major IM.


bent2theleft 59M
32 posts
8/2/2011 2:41 pm

Hiya FortyDDish, how are things in the hills of Yucaipa these days? Have some roots in the area from back in the past and still have some family in the local area. If you get this and are interested, any chance you want to go hang out at the old watering hole by I-10. Drop me a line and I'd be happy to take you for a spin on the dance floor sometime soon. Cheers to you!!!


bent2theleft 59M
32 posts
11/11/2011 1:27 pm

Still wanting to hear from you if you ever want to make the leap


hornysenior4 79M  
1391 posts
10/14/2013 5:29 pm

Sounds Simple to me!! Who Says that's not what a Man wants too?


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