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Bad Apples
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Bad Apples You know every bushel seems to have at least one. The Megaplex is no different. I've written several positive stories but in order to get the whole picture I've gotta tell you the negative too. For the most part my experiences have been fairly uneventful (of course I don't write about those days.. it would be one sentence of ok I sat on the couch for an hour just chilling and nobody bothered me and nobody had sex... dull right). I told you guys in one of my previous stories about the stalker type dude who waited for me in the parking lot. Not a good experience. The other evening I went, was sitting on a couch, and this guy asks first if he could sit by me, I said sure whatever. We are watching and here comes his hand to the boobages. I told him I wasn't really interested, thanks for saying nice tits, but I didn't feel like fooling around. He didn't seem to take offense and he went to stand somewhere else. So here comes this little old hispanic dude, stands right next to me, yanking himself, breathing heavy, and touches my hair. I pull away and shake my head. He continues to stand there while I ignore him then leans over and tells me what he wants to do to me. I say no in no uncertain terms but he still stands there yanking even harder and breathing heavier. If I scooted over on the couch I was afraid he would take that as an invitation. Finally I had to just leave, I went to the bathroom, smoked a cigarette, then went back in. Now the little dude was standing next to a couple on the front couch doing the same thing. The woman scooted as close as she could to her partner and her partner was giving the dude the evil eye and trying to shoo him away. I would not be surprised if that couple never returned. And if what that guy did to another female what he did to me, I'm sure she would never return and she would tell all her girlfriends not to go there. (Because we do talk) Nobody wants to be uncomfortable in a situation or even make a situation more uncomfortable by making a scene in front of a bunch of strangers. I am comfortable enough though by this time (and getting to know the people who work there) that I have no problem making a scene if a guy gets too pushy and ignores the fact that I already told them no. Another case in point on another day, I'm chilling at the front of the theater, there is like only one other person there and they haven't bothered me at all when in walks this guy (who seemed in shape and good looking) and I might have considered a little bit of fool around until he sat down next to me and started talking. OMG if I could get drunk off of fumes I'd have been toasted! He had been doing some serious drinking and was slurring his words and crap and I'm like oh shit... at least be a nice drunk. So of course he is like can I touch your.... and can I play with your.... and I'm like no... and he pouts and asks why not... and I'm like dude I am not gonna fuck everybody that walks in this door no matter what you think, just because I enjoy watching a porn every now and then.... and he begs and I tell him to stop it.. and I'm trying to be nice and talk low but since he just didn't get it I had to say no forcefully and loudly. Well he got quiet after that and THEN has the nerve to ask me "so no means no huh?" WTF? Of course no means no dipshit. Do I look like I'm not old enough to say what I mean? I tell him I got to go and I stood up, he reached out to stop me but he did not grab my arm forcefully. I have no problem whatsoever dialing the police on my cell phone (which was in my other hand in my pocket) and crying assault. So yea, bad apples and rotten tomatoes go there but I certainly hope that none of you guys that read this do that as above. But come on, if you see it happening, step up and ask if everything is ok. The woman may say yes in order to not cause a scene but at least the guy will know that someone is watching him and is ready to step in should he cross the line. And to all the guys who wonder why more women don't go there, read the above again. It only takes one asshole to disrespect a woman to where she won't ever go there again and like I said before, she tells her friends. Treat each other with respect and fairness and don't assume that if a female is in there that she is there to get it on with everyone. In fact assume nothing. |
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1/26/2009 7:23 pm |
It is ashame the situation you experienced is the image many women have of adult entertainment. It is difficult enough for a woman to give herself permission to publicly enjoy her sexuality that the last thing she needs is some creep to scare her away. I hope that more gentlemen will let it be known that they appreciate and respect a woman freeing herself to try experiencing an adult establishment. Jerks need to know that other men don't like the behavior you described and those men will stand up for women's freedom. After all, if all the women are scared off we are stuck jacking off to a bad movie with only other men. 
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1/27/2009 1:04 pm |
I'm in awe that you can handle yourself so well in there. Your latest picture is stunning....
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1/28/2009 10:06 am |
Stalkers SUCK!!! I have a Lady who Swears we are soul mates, and she still stalks me. It is rather disturbing. She is a sick person who needs help. I would have to go into more detail, but it all started and ONLY A FUCK BUDDY type situation. Before long, she was screaming I love you while having sex. It gets pretty scary as to the things she has done. I feel for anyone with or who had a stalker. W
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1/29/2009 11:48 am |
I had to laugh a little bit, the guy who finally got a clue about no meaning no . . . what a moron !!! Like someone else has said, glad thing sdidn't get to another level to whaere you had to do something more drastic. Glad also to know you don't lump all of us guys into one bug basket !!! Keep the stories and commentary coming !!! cjag
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1/29/2009 9:27 pm |
One might think the management would be interested in removing the truely irritating assholes if brought to their attention. Bad for business to have people run off because of one idiot! Any guy should be willing to lend a hand and at least provide cover in a situation like you experienced. Unfortunately not all are willing to step up. Sorry to hear you had the experience, but am gratified you have the wherewithall and presence of mind to manage the situation. Bill
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2/10/2009 6:42 am |
I also am sorry to hear of your bad time, but your very different you still enjoy going to this place. I have had a smaller exp. with my wife a old guy got naked and ask her if she would jack him off? I ask him very nicely to move and he wouldn't so we moved and he moved with us and I told him one more time.but we ended up leaving and she won't return with me for a fun evening,but we did go to a couple's only place once more and a another couple came in and the guy was very nice looking and his girl started given him good head and I got too play again and again that was the best and last time she ever went to a place like that with me. wish more women were like you,I would have ask you too come sit with me so he would have got the news "she's not into you dan it" or I would have ask him too leave.
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No no just making comments. On the website couples night is just that, a couples night, don't know if it will be a weekly or a monthly thing but it's not going to be everyday all the time for sure. 99% of the time it's still open for the "regular" folk. We would never forget you guys  One of the reasons for the website is to let people know the schedule as it were prior to going. You can look and see if anything special is going on like if the theater is reserved for a party or if it's couples night, etc. We will also post a sign in the store ahead of time for those who don't have internet access. We are just trying to appeal to a broader audience based on comments and suggestions we have received.
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