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Appreciation makes a difference....
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Appreciation makes a difference.... Seriously... I think more women would be open minded about sex if they felt they were appreciated more than just being there to have sex with. Case in point, yesterday. I know I know I apologize to those of you whom I should of informed that I was going to the Megaplex. I know you asked me to let you know the next time I went out there and I didn't and I'm sorry. It was just a pisser of a morning and I was annoyed/irritated as hell at something that went on at home and I had to get out of the house. There wasn't much time to give notice, it was kind of a spur of the moment sudden urge kinda thing. Anyway, I wasn't sure what I wanted anyway and sometimes if you guys ask me to go with you I feel almost expected to give you something and I didn't want to feel obligated. This was ME time to sit and relax, do something if I wanted to type thing. Anyway... so I went out there, saw a couple of cars in the parking lot and decided to go in. It's still 10 bucks per person but they raised the couples price from 10 to 15 (just to let yall know). There were three men there when I entered so it was easy to find a empty couch to sit on. I sat in defensive "leave me alone" mode, in other words legs and arms crossed, that usually gives out the signal to not mess with me. So, 15 minutes go by, and I start to relax when I realize the people there understood my body language. One guy comes up to me and asks if he could sit next to me, I said sure and went back into defensive stance. He didn't make any untoward moves, and he said that he had seen me there before. Oh great, it's been months since I've been there and it's still the same people LOL. But we started talking and making fun of the movies (like some of the sounds they were making and stuff.. you know) and now there are like 5 guys in there. Naturally I'm looking around and trying to catch someone with his dick out but nooooo.... OMG there is a woman in the theater and we don't know if she is "cool" or not. Hello? I'm watching a porn, of course I'm cool  Naturally, eventually, I get to feeling frisky and all these guys keep glancing over at me and this dude to see if we start anything. Not wanting to disappoint I pull out a breast and let my "friend" suckle a bit. Haha yep.. a breast is a magnet. I just close my eyes and lean way back. Next thing I know there are hands on my boobages and dicks in my hands so then..... Nope tell you later  When it was over, they all left except for two. Now comes the point of my story. These guys lingered for the sole purpose of thanking me. The orgasm, the eroticism, the feeling of being sexy and risque, all failed in comparison to that warm fuzzy, I was appreciated feeling. If they had just got their rocks off and left thinking that I got off and they got off and thats all that was needed, I wouldn't be going back anytime soon. Now I look forward to a return trip hoping that someone will appreciate the fact that I understand it's hard to find a woman for NSA fun, appreciate the fact that women like me and some that are on this site are few and far between. Thats one of the reasons I enjoyed escorting, the appreciation for being there and being available for when you are lonely or in the middle of a dry spell or are just horny. Those guys didn't have to place ads on craigs list or go to the megaplex for the 1:1000 chance that there may be a female there who may let you touch her. It's why I think there needs to be a place where people can go to relax and where other women like me can feel comfortable letting loose. I think thats why most women don't go to the Megaplex, because you don't know if these guys are safe or freaks or dirty or what.. it's frigging dark in there. Yes it can be erotic as hell in a dark room with a bunch of horny guys wanting to at least touch you and thats fine IF management knew who they were and knew they were ok and these guys were screened or checked out if you will. But the Megaplex doesn't do that, they let anyone in and that has got to be unnerving for the average female. It was for me when I first went there but I spent some time getting to know the employee first and felt comfortable enough to know that if I yelled for help or something he had no qualms about going in or calling the cops if necessary. Ok I'm rambling again. My point is guys, just say thank you and that the woman is appreciated. Even for an NSA encounter with a freaking stranger... thank her, it won't leave her with an empty feeling inside and will make her more likely to have an encounter again. Don't think that "Hey babe that was great" is a thank you. Yea yea... it's not. Be sincere, a thank you and I appreciate you for being here goes a long way... (DISCLAIMER: The above opinions are mine and does not mean to imply that the female race as a whole, has the same opinions or views as I do.) |
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Woops as a side note: of the four movies that were playing in a loop, one was actually a gay video. Unfortunately I couldn't stay long enough to watch that one but I am glad that they recognize the gay/bisexual population and have added a movie for them. Also, the lady that was working there was relatively new and did not know anything about an addition for a couples only room.
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1/16/2009 8:20 am |
hi.....
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Come see me! again! I will show you some appreciation lol You tell the best stories  but you left out some of the details! "the jucy parts" >>! maybe it is better that way?????
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Of course I left out details  Have to leave something for your crazy imagination ... besides your version may be better than mine LOL
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1/17/2009 11:57 am |
Wonderful story, I'd love to get some time off to head over and see what its all about. Thanks for sharing.
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1/18/2009 4:36 pm |
Now I know I have to check out the megaplex. The voyeur in me would love to watch the live action in the room, that is if I wasn't a part of the action myself. I've got to find time and get over to the megaplex. Thanks for not telling the whole story. I like to imagine just what could have been going on.
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1/29/2009 11:51 am |
Yes the imagination is a very powerful tool, an aphrodesiac I think. Thanks for not revealing every detail.... let us fill in the blanks. In my imagination, there was some very VERY good times going on there and a VERY lucky guy or tow or more...... Who knows, right? cjag
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"of note" Jack
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