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Flirts, Emails, Picture Viewers......... Why are people on here  

atasteofpleasure 52F  
47 posts
12/13/2008 11:29 am
Flirts, Emails, Picture Viewers......... Why are people on here


What the site has to offer. Flirts, Emails, Picture Viewers and a few Occasional Real Meets do happen.
I get messages daily from women, men, couples how to get noticed or make something happen? Some that appears to be real and some thats not, in which if you have been here a while? It don't take long to figure it out on your own.
They are so many people looking for a connection of some kind! Even just someone to email them without the possibilities of anything else ever happening. But can't discover what they are actually looking for, because of possibilities aren't a match. Could be the height weight and general interest isn't what others want.
There must be attraction with some wanted chemistry to take place in order to be fun. Believe me everyone that is on here, isn't for everyone, sad, but true.
If someone that reads your profile and sends flirts daily with on going email to your account then there is a pretty good chance they are real and feel that something can take place even if its just Dinner, Drinks, etc.
The ones thats hardly ever writes or views, or shows very little interest. Most likely then there is a good possibility that its not going to happen. If it does then it most likely it want be fun or you wish it didn't ever happen in the end.

Please post your opinion of what you think.

alwaysready27573 67M/57F
5 posts
12/13/2008 1:49 pm

That is true,yet on the other hand we have found some that consider frequent view and e-mails as being " pushy ".so in our profile we state that we will wink or e-mail ( for standard members who cant respond to a wink ),if they have an interest ,they can respond,,,so we wont be considered pushy ! Oh and the game players,,we have run across so many of them,,say THEY are interested yet they say she has to meet for a fmf with their wife so she will be comfortable enough to meet my man ?? i consider that bs ,,or people that set up a meeting and cancel at the last minute,,not once but 2 or 3 times..i understand stuff happens,being family people ourselves,,but not several times..we have limited playtime ,as do all family folks,so we try to arrange things way in advance,and if we have to cancel,we do that with enough notice so they can arrange other activities.we consider it courteous.i hope this doesnt make us sound prude !!


nccpl4play4fem 61M/62F

9/12/2010 1:53 pm

And then the standard members find it hard to contact other members on here without upgrading their account. There has to be a way to contact someone.


rowdy691 55M

11/7/2010 7:35 am

probably the best way to contact someone is by responding to blogs or joining a group. In all the time i've been on this site i've only met a couple of folks. One through email and one through a chat room. That second meeting wouldn't have happened if I hadn't had to travel and coincidentally had a layover in her hometown. I was a gold member for several years but got tired of paying and getting very few responses, and then the few that did respond went poof after a few emails. kinda made me suspicious I do see lots of profiles that tempt me to renew though, I'm really anxious to see the photos and video that the author of this blog has posted... I may just take the plunge shortly


DurhM 57M
3 posts
12/12/2010 6:20 pm

I assume my path will be to go daily to the chat groups. I'll get the lay of the land
and see who is out there... Obviously Every guy wants to drive into a "McDonalds" and drive away happy...

There are many many profiles, but they could all be one person... (Since standards cant
really view the profiles or anything to validate people.

Most of the people in the groups chatting are 1) always on, 2) desperate guys, and
3) people popping in and out. So, I don't know where people go that are ONLINE...
"Find Member" doesnt find them.

There are multiple browsers for chat groups... I assume they all go to the same
content.

I would assume everyone is trying to find a partner they can meet up with occasionally
at the cost of a date, rather than a hugh overhead. (But when desperate...)

So, the trick is finding a partner that really wants that. And isnt making a living on it?


mrgetherwett 47M
3 posts
3/25/2011 8:25 pm

I find my self making my way back to this site. Its a battle to stay on here b/c it is an "adult site". I love this site and the women on here. The variety of women. The key to this site is how you approach who you are attracted to. Al;so making this site work for you. They are many ways to earn pooints to make a free connection. I am just now useing the chat rooms and blogs.


castiel70 53M
110 posts
5/17/2011 10:01 am

cierto interesante la gente que se encuentra y muy bella foto


FALANDOCOMVOCE75 58F

10/1/2011 6:01 am


TheEdge8 51M

10/19/2011 11:10 am

I think that pretty much sums it up.


zenserene1 80M

11/12/2011 7:27 am

Have been on the "site search scene" for one year. Hopes have turned to reality that there are VERY FEW authentic sites that are what they are made to appear. Many multi-site corps that use cam whoe shills to lure men, have pre-witten emails used to keep up hopes, use pop-ups to interrupt your surfing which should give you a hint that they could care less about your satisfaction and finding a cuddle-fuck, or whatever. They are in it for the buck. Most of them are "in bed" and there is a real racket out there. Many foreign scams also. Would appreciate a site or any advice as to groups where you can find authentic people who are interested in the whole range from occasional f-your brains out FWB hookups to seeking long term or marriage. Though I came to the scene with 18 years of celibate relationship behind me, I have yet to find a match in an intelligent, secure person who has a high sex appetite and is very experienced-as am I (pre-marriage)-and not needing the anonymous computer screen to avoid a committment to just good f'ing and loving and fun activities. I'm gettin' real frustrated by the whole thing and, having given up drinking 21+years ago, the bar scene is just too full of people needing to get liquor-limber before they can be who they are...Where are you folks, you authentic, liberated adults? Bob/zenserene1


FALANDOCOMVOCE75 58F

12/30/2011 1:25 pm

KISS FROM ARGENTINA ..!!


rdrkt51 55M  
61 posts
7/5/2015 7:58 pm

Flirts, emails, pictures
Why are people on this site? There are probably almost as many reasons as people. To each their own. Entertainment, sex, fantasy and ego. I have met more true people on this site than the traditional dating site I am involved with. Ego isn't really an issue with me but it is definitely out there. Fantasy is fantastic. I believe (good) sex starts with fantasy and imagination. From that, I've had some memorable encounters here from slow and sensual to raw passion. I also use it for entertainment. It's better than deleting junk emails by far. I have referred to it as "a video game you sometimes win." Flirts, emails and pictures are part of the game and the prizes are friends and (hopefully) great sex. That's why I'm on this site.


rm_tnwaggy31 45M/39F
1 post
3/4/2016 7:27 am

My husband and I are new on here...when we put our prefrences on the search engine it says we have no matches. We are not picking when it comes to the women we are looking to bring in to our bedroom, as you can't build a bitch on here lol. But were looking for more someone to get to know have fun with once in a while drinks, dinner, mmmm time. Any suggestions and how to build our profile up.


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