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AM I A NYMPH ?  

BlueEyesInFND 49F
104 posts
9/13/2010 9:48 pm
AM I A NYMPH ?


I am curious about what a Nymphomaniac truly is. According to the Webster's Dictionary it simply states excessive sexual desire by a female". Well if that is a true depiction of what a Nymph is than I guess that would be an accurate description of me. I love sex. I love the touch of a man against me. The spark of the kiss and everything that preludes the actual action. I dont want to have just one orgasm a session, I want many. 6 or more to start and hopefull even more than that. Obviously the partner, mood of both partners and alcohol use call all play a factor in the total result, but it will always be more than one for sure, lol!

However, I must admit that I really thought that a Nymphomaniac was a person that was addicted to sex. Would put themselves into dangerous propositions in order to achieve the hightened senses you receive from have a sexual experience. And that even after the sexual act is over that they still desire to have sex again immediately after because that sense of satisfaction only lasted as long as the act did. Someone that would have sex with someone they were not attracted to in order to attempt to reach that high again. Maybe even have sex with someone that would be considered high risk, such as an iv drug user or to have unsafe sex.
Basically that there is no sense or care for the safetly on themselves, whatever it takes to get that high.

That is not me, so I thought it was impossible for me to even consider myself to be defined by that word.

My experience is that I have a much higher sex drive than any man I have ever met. And the better the partner, the more I want. I mean come on, if its good, who doesn't want seconds, right, lol! and third's. I am a multiple and I have come to expect that to be a normal expectation for any sexual experience I have. I would have sex every day of the week, maybe a couple times a day, if my partner would agree. However, I will go without sex completely, if the choice to have sex isn't responsible. I would never endanger myself or go outside of my relationship to get more.

I always 100% of the time prefer sex vs masturbation. Masturbation to me is just a release, it is not as enjoyable to me as the intimate and mental connection made with my partner, EVER! I will masturbate to get that release, but it is never satisfying. I still want to have sex after the orgasm. However, I have found that if my partner wants me to perform for him, that is very erotic, but I am still hoping for sex to finalize the event. I wouldnt be upset if it was just mutual masturbation, but I would love for it to turn into more.

So, my question is. Am I a Nymphomaniac? Really, is the Webster's Dictionary the true definition of a Nymph. And if it is, will I ever be truly satisfied or will I always want more than someone can give me. And if so, how do I satisfy that craving? Can it be satisfied?
You tell me.........

BlueEyesInFND 49F
58 posts
9/28/2010 5:37 pm

To reply to the blog comment about being excited about being a nymph. I am not excited about it. It is very frustratiing. I have never net a man that can meet my sexual needs and desires. I am almost 36 years old and I love the passion and connection I get from a partner I care about. I have been on this site for years and I have had several friends with benifits relationships too and I have enough appetite to satisfy more than one man. However, there is one that I desire and I need to figure out how to satisfy my cravings without seeking elsewhere and I dont know how to make that happen.


UpForFun94526 41M

9/13/2010 10:07 pm

I wouldn't say that you are a nymphomaniac..you would be suprised at things you will do that are dangerous though without even realizing it. Some people have no choice, but to go outside of their relationship. Sometimes people may be happy at home, but like a drug addict, eventually go out for that first high that made their heart race and their spine squirm. Websters dictionary would probably describe a nymph as a bug in early development. So if you are a nymph now, you could very grow into an actual addict Happy Hunting!

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ak_bigbadwolf2 51M

9/13/2010 9:55 pm

A Nymph is a woodland fairie.


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