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Single Males.....Seriously....I don't get it !  

CowboyNRider469 68M/58F
0 posts
5/5/2009 1:06 pm
Single Males.....Seriously....I don't get it !

Shelley writes all our blogs but I (Tony) have an issue with many of the single males out there. Occasionally we will enjoy a MFM threesome as is apparent in some of our network albums and pics.

We do require the single male be able to host our meeting. We really don't care if it's in their home or they provide a hotel room. I am amazed at how many guys say "I can't host why can't you?" REALLY ??? So you want me to provide the place and the pussy ??? Any particular type of premium liquor, import beer or cuban cigar you would like me to pick up before you arrive??? WTF

I bring this up because I was on IM this morning and this happened twice! I was single in this lifestyle many years before I met the love of my life (Shelley) on this site. When I was fortunate enough to be contacted by a couple I was only too happy to pay for a nice room. I was honored and appreciated the fact he was willing to share his lovely wife with me.

Guys....if you can't afford to live alone or can't afford a decent hotel room you may want to wait till you can before you continue to explore this lifestyle.


oregon69guy 54M
68 posts
5/18/2018 2:59 pm

I normally does host because i have indoor cats that are blind or sight impaired and i worry that someone will let them slip outside if they are not careful while entering and leaving my home. Also, some people are not cat people like some people are not dog people. I respect all persons pets indoor or outdoor.


broncomanaz 57M
22 posts
8/17/2013 8:17 am

i'm with you on that! Tony


wildFun34 47M/44F
69 posts
10/21/2011 4:20 pm

I can host if your up for it Adrian


kinky8plus 68M

12/21/2010 12:48 pm

Sometimes as in my case with three young adults (my kids) still living at home, hosting just is not practical. Having a couple over for a social get-together is one thing, but they're not going to understand dad and another women, or even more confusing for them, dad and a couple running off into the bedroom. They still see their mother as the only one dad should be with no matter what's transpired, hence I have no choice but to play outside the home.


a_normal_guy03 70M
30 posts
11/30/2009 7:13 am

Ok, I think (for the sake of discussion) we need a dissenting opinion here. First off, I do host, have split a hotel with a couple, and have been invited to their place. I would never pay for everything just to have a shot at some guy's wife, I think it's demeaning and disrespectful toward her to even suggest that.

I think the concept that the male should be required to foot the bill to "tap your wife" is a little repugnant and daresay reeks of treating this like a prostitute/john relationship. I'm assuming we are all getting into this because we ALL get something out of it both sexually and socially. If we were going golfing you wouldn't always expect the guy to pay just because you brought your wife, would you?

Single guys who are willing to "pay for it" probably shouldn't be on your list of friends anyway. Couples who required me to pay for it wouldn't be on mine.....

I understand the privelege that sharing yourselves represents, and I do appreaciate the trust and intimacy, but all the same, if I go to the bar with my friends we take turns buying rounds because we all enjoy being with each other, why would you have at any other way?


maineboarder88 57M/50F

5/7/2009 6:48 am

Hey there. We are just starting out; looking for a single male for an MFM, and appreciate your insight on the matter. One question though.. how do you broach the subject to the single male, "you are expected to host" ? The whole thing seems a bit overwhelming from this side of the fence not ever having been there..
Also I am bit concerned about relationship stability in the aftermath of a 3-some. Any advice there?
thanks!
Brooke


CowboyNRider469 replies on 5/14/2009 11:53 pm:
Brooke ~ Shelley here, the female half of our duo in response to your comment/question. Just a comment, but if there's ANY concern about the stability of a relationship, you should avoid this at all costs! Seriously, you need to do what you're BOTH comfortable with. If you're not, step back, take a breath and revisit the idea when you're both feeling a bit more secure. Trust me, it's not worth it and I think anyone that's been in this lifestyle for any length of time successfully will agree. I hope it helps! Good luck & have fun!

mikeandred 58M/53F
18 posts
5/6/2009 7:35 am

RIGHT ON BRO!!! as a man i cant agree w/u more! if u r lucky enough 4 me 2 share my beautiful, sexy wife w/u the least .


LustyCpl54 69M/67F
31 posts
5/6/2009 6:41 am

Definitely. We just figure his mom or wife won't let him out of the basement to go out and play! Those we usually cross off our "list."


fuckmerunning691 52F

5/6/2009 1:22 am

VERY well put even for just a woman looking for a single guy and he cannot host is a WARNING sign something is not right.


freshcouplerdy 73M/74F
80 posts
5/5/2009 7:24 pm

Brovo and well stated.


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