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Single Males.....Seriously....I don't get it !
Single Males.....Seriously....I don't get it ! Shelley writes all our blogs but I (Tony) have an issue with many of the single males out there. Occasionally we will enjoy a MFM threesome as is apparent in some of our network albums and pics. We do require the single male be able to host our meeting. We really don't care if it's in their home or they provide a hotel room. I am amazed at how many guys say "I can't host why can't you?" REALLY ??? So you want me to provide the place and the pussy ??? Any particular type of premium liquor, import beer or cuban cigar you would like me to pick up before you arrive??? WTF I bring this up because I was on IM this morning and this happened twice! I was single in this lifestyle many years before I met the love of my life (Shelley) on this site. When I was fortunate enough to be contacted by a couple I was only too happy to pay for a nice room. I was honored and appreciated the fact he was willing to share his lovely wife with me. Guys....if you can't afford to live alone or can't afford a decent hotel room you may want to wait till you can before you continue to explore this lifestyle. |
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I normally does host because i have indoor cats that are blind or sight impaired and i worry that someone will let them slip outside if they are not careful while entering and leaving my home. Also, some people are not cat people like some people are not dog people. I respect all persons pets indoor or outdoor.
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i'm with you on that! Tony
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I can host if your up for it Adrian
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12/21/2010 12:48 pm |
Sometimes as in my case with three young adults (my kids) still living at home, hosting just is not practical. Having a couple over for a social get-together is one thing, but they're not going to understand dad and another women, or even more confusing for them, dad and a couple running off into the bedroom. They still see their mother as the only one dad should be with no matter what's transpired, hence I have no choice but to play outside the home.
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Ok, I think (for the sake of discussion) we need a dissenting opinion here. First off, I do host, have split a hotel with a couple, and have been invited to their place. I would never pay for everything just to have a shot at some guy's wife, I think it's demeaning and disrespectful toward her to even suggest that. I think the concept that the male should be required to foot the bill to "tap your wife" is a little repugnant and daresay reeks of treating this like a prostitute/john relationship. I'm assuming we are all getting into this because we ALL get something out of it both sexually and socially. If we were going golfing you wouldn't always expect the guy to pay just because you brought your wife, would you? Single guys who are willing to "pay for it" probably shouldn't be on your list of friends anyway. Couples who required me to pay for it wouldn't be on mine..... I understand the privelege that sharing yourselves represents, and I do appreaciate the trust and intimacy, but all the same, if I go to the bar with my friends we take turns buying rounds because we all enjoy being with each other, why would you have at any other way?
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5/7/2009 6:48 am |
Hey there. We are just starting out; looking for a single male for an MFM, and appreciate your insight on the matter. One question though.. how do you broach the subject to the single male, "you are expected to host" ? The whole thing seems a bit overwhelming from this side of the fence not ever having been there.. Also I am bit concerned about relationship stability in the aftermath of a 3-some. Any advice there? thanks! Brooke
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RIGHT ON BRO!!! as a man i cant agree w/u more! if u r lucky enough 4 me 2 share my beautiful, sexy wife w/u the least .
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Definitely. We just figure his mom or wife won't let him out of the basement to go out and play! Those we usually cross off our "list."
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5/6/2009 1:22 am |
VERY well put even for just a woman looking for a single guy and he cannot host is a WARNING sign something is not right.
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Brovo and well stated.
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