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Should I be mad?? I want to hear what you think?  

rm_BigDnLady 50M/48F
755 posts
4/2/2007 5:46 pm

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2/20/2009 11:24 am

Should I be mad?? I want to hear what you think?

Ok, here is the deal. As everyone knows D and I are here to meet a bifemale, for both of our pleasures. We are also on another site. Anyway, D and I at times chat separately, which is no big deal as long as each of us make it know what we are looking for. Right?? Right. Ok, anyway, D began chatting with this female who supposedly knew about me. Well, we thought that everything was all good, so D gave her the cell #. Ok, no big deal, right???? Wrong, this trick is not bisexual. It was all a lie to try to get to D!!!! Ain't that bitch??? Now, D is not answering her calls.

Now, would you be mad if you found out that someone of the opposite sex was calling for your partner, even after they found out that about you. Along with the fact that he/she is not what you are looking for? How would you handle the situation. I am a little upset, because the cell # is suppose to come with both of us agreeing on the person. I am not usually an insecure person, but I can't help but wonder what type of conversations were going on when I wasn't around. I mean something had to be said, for her to keep calling unless she is a stalker. What do you think??? Oh yeah, the fem only lives about 2-3 hours from us!! Come on people tell me what you think!!!

Lady


so4fun22 51F

4/2/2007 6:38 pm

I'd be pissed!! This all only works right if we are all grown up and honest about our intentions RIGHT?

LIVE LOVE LAUGH OFTEN


freetime648 59F

4/3/2007 12:57 am

I would be a bit pissy too.....but do not take it out on D. He may have unintentionally led her to believe it was just him. Happened to me before as well and it is best to just let it go. He is NOT answering her calls, therefore, no need to worry about the small shit! Mark it down as lesson learned!


xx FREETIME648 xx


HeavenleeKisses 62M/63F

4/14/2007 8:36 pm

Imma play devils advocate here...there is no way he inadvertingly lead her on to believe it was him alone.....either he did and your issue shouldn't only be with her but with him....the betrayel would be on his part not hers....boundaries were definitely overstepped if the agreement was you both agreed who got the cell number and you have a right to be concerned about what other conversations took place....or she is a stalker and he didn't lead her on at all....BUT that still doesn't explain her having a cell number that you never agreed to give her....think about it!

"Kisses were created by God, for when words are not neccessary"....Heavenlee


firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
2/6/2008 9:46 pm

I'd be kinda pissed. I wouldn't be pissed at D tho. I know we've had this problem with chicks before. Our space is a bit cozy so there's no hiding anything from each other even if we wanted to. But I have seen situations where the woman in question will say that at first she's all good with the rules and then just try and manipulate her way out of it.

In our case, the other woman isn't required to have sex with me but my physical presence is required. Even then, we keep running across this issue - they want private one on one time. The mr. has gotten pretty good at figuring it out before it got to be a problem. *knock on wood*

The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


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