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ADULT FRIENDSHIP !
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ADULT FRIENDSHIP ! DEAR FRIENDS, WHEN WE CAME IN TO Passion A LITTLE OVER 3 1/2 YEARS AGO, WE THOUGHT WE SHALL BE MEETING MATURE ADULT COUPLES WITH, SOME OF, WHOM WE WOULD BE ABLE TO FORM LASTING FRIENDSHIP. BUT NOTHING OF THAT SORT HAPPENED. WITH MOST, THE BREAK HAPPENED AFTER ONLY ONE 'REAL ENCOUNTER' AND WITH OTHER TWO/THREE THE THE FRIENDSHIP TAPERED OFF AFTER 4-5 REPEAT 'ENCOUNTERS'. IT WOULD SEEM THAT MOST WERE CONTENT WITH A 'ONE-NIGHT -STAND'AS AGAINST A 'CONTINUAL AFFAIR'. WE THOUGHT THE WORD 'FRIEND' IMPLIED SOME KIND OF A CONTINUITY, A DEEPER AND LASTING COMMITMENT, BUT IT SEEMS IN THE PRESENT-DAY CONTEXT IT ONLY MEANS A 'FLEETING' RELATIONSHIP ! TO BE FAIR, ONE COUPLE, OF OUR EARLIEST AQUAINTANCE WITH WHOM WE HAD NO LESS THAN THREE ENCOUNTERS, HAS MAINTAINED CONSTANT TOUCH WITH US THROUGH SMS, TWO MALES AND A FEMALE FRIENDS HAVE ALSO MAINTAINED STEADY CONTACT THROUGH CHAT, SMS AND MOBILE PHONE CALLS. SO, THAT BRINGS US TO THE ALL IMPORTANT QUESTION; WHAT ARE PEOPLE IN Passion LOOKING FOR? THE OBVIOUS ANSWER THAT OCCURS TO ME IS, 'JUST ONE ENCOUNTER OF WHAM, BHAM, THANK YOU MA'AM. GOOD BYE'. WERE WE THEN, TO BEGIN WITH, NAIVE TO EXPECT MORE THAN 'THE FULFILMENT OF OUR EROTIC FANTASIES' FROM Passion? OR IS IT THAT, ANY FORM OF 'FRIENDSHIP' HAS GONE OUT OF FASHION; THAT A FRIENDSHIP IS CREATED, TEMPORARILY, MERELY TO ACCOMPLISH A CERTAIN PURPOSE, AND IS RENDERED MEANINGLESS ONCE THAT PURPOSE HAS BEEN SERVED? THAT BRINGS US TO ANOTHER QUESTION! WOULD YOU BE EMBARASSED AT A CHANCE MEETING WITH A COUPLE, MALE OR FEMALE ( WITH WHOM YOU HAVE HAD SWAPPING ENCOUNTERS ) AT A PARTY OR A SOCIAL FUNCTION? WOULD YOU RATHER AVOID EYE-TO-EYE CONTACT WITH THEM THAN OR BE COMFORTABLE AND CONFRONT, GREET AND MINGLE WITH THEM WITH POISE, CONFIDENCE AND WITH FRIENDLINESS ? THAT WILL NOT ONLY BE A REAL TEST OF YOUR CHARACTER BUT ALSO REVEAL TO YOURSELF WHETHER OR NOT YOU POSSESS THOSE INHERENT QUALITIES, INCLUDING MATURITY, REQUIRED TO BE CALLED A TRUE AND ELIGIBLE MEMBER OF Passion ! WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY FOLKS ? |
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i want to meet u, i m at delhi now
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5/5/2012 2:09 am |
hi, first of congratulate u guys..as i feel friends are hard to make..it take time and commitment.try to organise some meeting of ur passion members tobuild same
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11/11/2011 8:24 am |
Hi,well its wonderful to read about you.Maturity is the frist step for frndship,once chatting starts the maturity shows.Frndship comes first, the the lil flirtations ,which we call nook jhhok removes the inhibitions.Enjoyments by way of chat,phone and real meets can follow.sharing of adults thots,practices,experiences can b great arousers. Seen u online at Im now,requested for chat , but did not go through.Wud love to b frnds,if u have ya the hoocan buzz naturalmann, thatwud be me.TC ,be happy n enjoy what u like.
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10/26/2010 11:30 pm |
hi, well,im also of the same opinion !!me too have been here for almost 3 yrs,but havn't met any couple/single female here.everybody claims to be having the drive n this n that ,but nobody wants to go further.....!! Well,thats the way it is . I think our brethren need a lot of prodding.
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Great post and you have captured the sentiments very well, however, to be fair the basis of anyone coming to these sites is the passion for sex and not so much the regular friendships - I guess you have the good old facebook for that  Also as mentioned by a number of your other readers - in cases it is friendship leading to sex and in others sex leading to friendship... more likelihood that the former would be easier!! Thats us.... M&F 40 & 38... In Delhi
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38.33 from delhi looking for cpls for adult fun
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Hi, I would like to share my experience here. I met an elderly couple on Passion. Since I travel on business, I met them in their city on a couple of occasions. The lady and I had some great oral sex on both occasions, whilst the gentleman was just an observer. That's the way they wanted it and I respected their decision. After the two 'sexual' meetings, we have met on a number of occasions and had dinner together. The lady expressed that she would not want to get into anything sexual. That was fine with me. We still remain good friends. It's been more than 5 years since I know them and we are still in touch. It all depends on the maturity level of the people involved. It is possible to develop a good relationship with people whom you meet on Passion. But, they are very few such people on Passion, especially in India. Like anyother social networking site, Passion too has its own share of people - weird ones, good ones, jealous ones, sadistic ones, bad ones, etc. You will have to very careful to choose your friends on sites such as these. Good luck to you both.
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4/30/2010 7:26 am |
longing 4 real
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i can accomodate in south delhi let me know pls 9717965519 Rajneesh 33 years 5'11 thanks
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2/23/2010 7:24 am |
u r really true i really want to be ur friend if u read this and think that i m genuine drop me a mail at viklp0702 at yaho,bye tc
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Such a wonderfully written blog .... Friendship ! How precious it is a thing and rarely do others really feel it as it should be ... one of my closest friends, who is of course a lot older to me and I call him 'Bhaiyya' (no, not out of any kink, just simply) is the male part of a couple with whom I shared a wonderful relationship ... the sexual part of it has now discontinued because of unavoidable reasons, but we are family friends now ..... its something I truly cherish ... It would be really nice to know your more folks, and look forward to a stimulating interaction..
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11/7/2009 7:23 pm |
DEAR JOEHM & HOTDOG AND OTHERS, WE APPRECIATE YOUR COMMENTS. WE LIKE OUR BLOGS TO BE COMMENTED UPON. IT IS VERY INTERESTING AND ENLIGHTENING TO READ VARIOUS POINTS-OF-VIEW ON ISSUES THAT BOTHER US AND OCCUPY OUR MIND. IT CLEARS THE COBWEB IN OUR MINDS AND PRODS US RE-THINK AND LOOK AT IT FROM A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE, SO TO SPEAK. AS TO MEETING A SINGLE MALE WE HAVE RESERVATIONS, THEREFORE YOU INTELLIGENT GUYS WILL UNDERSTAND AND RESPECT OUR CHOICE!!! WE HOPE AND WISH YOU WILL MEET MANY SINGLES AND COUPLES, WHO ARE SO INCLINED, AND HAVE YOUR PORTION OF FUN TOO!!! LOVE2LOOK5854 POST 2081088
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11/5/2009 7:13 pm |
hi, there cannot be absolute "rules" with such things i guess.each will have his own opinions and agenda. since the site is primararily for swingers it is equally justified that if people want just a one off experince. equally if there are mosre sensitive and sensible people like you,they would want something of lasting value both physically and as friends or otherwise. i think you sound a tad judgemental when you say that friendship has gone out of fashion.no i cannot agree with that..it is different things for diffrent folks.the only thing that is of lasting value id the freedom of choice and the mutual comfort and chemistry..after all one can choose one frineds cant one.... lovely to see a sensitive couple like you.i would love to interact and if possible meet with you. and if we do meet up after we have had a relationship or a meet..yes as far i a can say about myself...i will look you in the eye,and yes you will be friends. cheers, ajay...hotdog42658
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give me a chance honey pls- amit new delhi
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10/1/2009 10:41 am |
Hi would like to share my thaught as fun should reamain in side of four wall only. when we are out side of will we should be just social friend.I am person who is having so many cpls friend and known to eachothers for year and i have attanded wedding of one of cpls son also but it was real social gatering without known to others about our discreet fun relation. so if we keep our discrret fun as total secrete so nothing wrong in social meet. looking forward to be your nice friend, cheers
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Hope is eternal & one should never leave hope as it is the strongest force which drives you & takes you towards your goals. You will definitely meet true & genuine people however few they may be perhaps perseverance is the mantra here also. So all the best keep hoping trying & happy searching.
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9/23/2009 7:37 am |
hubbynwifey, must thank you for taking time off to read the entire blog and for commenting on about all the issues raised in it...like it...guess you are right...it would be worthwhile holding on to those genuine people who value our friendship than pine for what cannot be... hope to meet you people some day...
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I personally believe that even in normal life you hardly get true friends who are truely concerned & really know the meaning of friendship. For true friendship to develop you require more than a one night stand, you require commonality of thoughts, interests & above all truthfulness. I think it is really naive on your part to expect true friendship from everybody you meet in a medium & on a site where you are starting off with a false identity & try to hold on your true identity for as long as possible, of course there are exceptions as you yourself have experienced with a few people with whom you are still in touch. I also feel that there is nothing to feel ashamed or embarassed about if you meet a couple with whom you have swapped/swinged earlier as, if you are matured enough to swap/swing then you should be responsible enough to accept it even if you did'nt like the experience & you should'nt be shirking away from it by avoiding the person you shared your passions with (even if it is for one night) I for myself will never do it & conduct myself in the party with the same warmth & poise as I would have when I met the couple earlier for swapping/swinging but would also expect the same back.
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