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Deal breakers!  

maverick1255 58M
1653 posts
6/23/2006 11:51 am
Deal breakers!

Minor rant time. I am constantly bombarded by all the things that the ladies don't like about the email approaches that are sent to them. Well, here is part one of two on MY perspective on this world of A and an F and an F.

When I go to a profile and see no picture. It says, I am not really serious enough about this site to post a picture. I know, I know, I'm to famous, I'm a big ass business tycoon, people might recognize me. Ok, what ever. There are so many ways to take a picture of yourself. Be creative!! I even have come to like the little black masks people draw over parts of their face. Even the simplest picture says something about you.

Next, Prefer Not To Say! Ok, your bi, or gay, or married, or whatever. Again, pick one. Because you know that we will just figure the worse choice!!

Profile, first paragraph. Tell us at least a little about you. Don't you fill the space with gibberish! Or I Don't Know What To Write! Well, go think up something! We all have!

If you put, "I am here just to fuck." Don't come all crying that that is all the email you receive.

Sorry. I have just run into so many of these that I just wanted to take a stand.

Ramblings of Mav





rm_katetonite 56F

6/23/2006 12:12 pm

I tried to be honest and descriptive on my profile, but for some reason, no one winked when I noted I wanted my car tuned-up, the gutters cleared, a loaf of bread from the store and the bathroom repainted.


maverick1255 replies on 6/23/2006 2:48 pm:
Yea, I can see that!! That's like my 'stay at home husband' idea. I think that will go to the trash soon.

angelofmercy5 66F
17879 posts
6/23/2006 1:57 pm

I dont know why....but it struck me funny that you don't have a picture and neither does the first two commentors! My hubby had a very bad experience when someone recognized him by his picture here even with the face blurred!


maverick1255 replies on 6/23/2006 2:58 pm:
The big guys in the overseers chair must have been messing with my photo. It is still there! Sorry.

Yea, I don't even mind the more anonymous stuff, for the photos. Just some image helps communicate.

JuicyBBW1001 62F

6/23/2006 2:21 pm

Hmmm mav what happened to your pic?? angel mav is a major hottie I have seen him and drool often. (mav you owe me)

Juicy


maverick1255 replies on 6/23/2006 2:59 pm:
OK, check is in the mail!!

loadeddice05 51M

6/23/2006 2:32 pm

HMNN! Funny thing my profile was about to get a pic this morning!! And sumthin will turn up soon. But as far as the pic?? I'll exchange a pic when I meet a new net friend or when I'm trying to meet someone. And that seems fair enough?

I have a prefer not to say on mine and it was not cause I put it there!! It may have been set straight now. I haven't checked.

And as for the profiles first paragraph. WHAT'S WRONG WITH GIBBERISH???? LOL!!!


maverick1255 replies on 6/23/2006 3:41 pm:
We expect gibberish from YOU!!! You have a picture, I don't know if I could believe it!! I will ASSUME that it will be a cock shot!! LMAO!!!

JuicyBBW1001 62F

6/23/2006 8:40 pm

Hmm was not thinkin check was thinkin roller coasters

Juicy


maverick1255 replies on 6/24/2006 4:42 am:
Got ya'!

jst4fun915 41F

6/24/2006 10:34 am

I HATE when someone puts prefer not to say for their orientation and/or marital status, because to me those are 2 non-negotiable facts!


maverick1255 replies on 6/24/2006 1:59 pm:
Yes! And those do seem to be the most common PNTS! What do they expect us to think! Sexual orientation - GAY or BI. Status - MARRIED! Not the brightest move to make.

rm_Chuck4790 67M

6/26/2006 11:35 am

I'll stick my neck out here.... I don't post a photo because I wish to remain discreet, and you never know who is on this website.. Even if your "significant other" NEVER ventures into the computer, they have friends... and, there have been cases where I have actually seen people I know on Passion.

However, I DO add the note in any emails that I have a pic (face) that is available if I get an email or a response showing true interest...


maverick1255 replies on 6/26/2006 11:40 am:
That can be fair. I just think that there are a lot of ways to have a photo of yourself without giving too much away. Thats all.

Thanks for dropping in.

rm_Chuck4790 67M

6/26/2006 7:23 pm

Hey, Mav.... I need an opinion..

I sent an email to a female ...... and, as I said, I added the note stating that I could send a face pic if she was interested......

OK... so, I get a response saying that she does not answer emails without photos.... however, HER profile does NOT have a photo....

things that make ya go "hmmmmmmmmmm"?


maverick1255 replies on 6/26/2006 7:57 pm:
That is a real dilemma. Yes, that is a problem. Since, I am naturally on your side , I would think if you would like to really reach her - you should be the man and request a picture from her, but provide one with the email to her. Here, this site, you will have to stick your neck out to get noticed.

Back to the original posting - I might try to create a few pictures of you, just not your full face. Then use these to respond to emails that request a picture. These will give you something to barter with!

Just ramblings of Mav

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